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  • Protecting children from the effects of separation

    10 Oct 15:54

    When parents break up, there are a number of short and long term effects on children. Knowing these effects can help you protect against them and give your children the best chance in l... (continued)

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  • Changing a child’s name after divorce

    11 Aug 15:05

    When a relationship ends, you’ll want to do everything you can to create a stable environment for your children. Usually, following a divorce, children keep their original surname... (continued)

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  • The latest advice on helping children through divorce or separation

    18 Sep 17:07

    There’s no perfect way to talk to your children about your separation, but there are things you can do to make it easier on them... We are now able to look at a great deal of e... (continued)

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  • What Tax-Free Childcare could mean for you

    10 Jul 14:45

    In the first budget of the new government, Chancellor George Osborne has announced some changes to the way childcare support will be handled. If you are a separated parent and are cu... (continued)

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  • Separation troubles? Talk it out in the listening room

    06 Feb 14:59

    Whether we’re going through a separation, or we’ve separated for a while, many of us feel like we need someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, or a space where we can just... (continued)

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  • Is Shared Care for You?

    21 Oct 16:47

    Dads are more ‘hands on’ than ever before but the fact remains that in the UK, children are mostly cared for by mums. Most people’s work commitments are the big barrie... (continued)

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  • Meeting new partners

    20 Oct 15:26

    After separating, in time you will both move on and will be meeting new partners. For some older children, they are glad to see you happy and getting on with your life - they may feel t... (continued)

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  • Handovers are Hard

    20 Oct 16:28

    If you are feeling awkward or upset at the prospect of facing your ex, then handovers can be very difficult. You may have to use all your powers of self control to stay calm. Some... (continued)

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  • The latest advice on helping children through divorce or separation

    18 Sep 17:07

    There’s no perfect way to talk to your children about your separation, but there are things you can do to make it easier on them... We are now able to look at a great deal of e... (continued)

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  • Keeping in touch with your child's school

    21 Oct 16:51

      An important way of helping your child do well is to show an interest and be actively involved in their education. Taking and collecting from school or getting involved in hom... (continued)

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  • Separation troubles? Talk it out in the listening room

    06 Feb 14:59

    Whether we’re going through a separation, or we’ve separated for a while, many of us feel like we need someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, or a space where we can just... (continued)

    20 Comments Read more →
  • Handovers are Hard

    20 Oct 16:28

    If you are feeling awkward or upset at the prospect of facing your ex, then handovers can be very difficult. You may have to use all your powers of self control to stay calm. Some... (continued)

    4 Comments Read more →
  • Meeting new partners

    20 Oct 15:26

    After separating, in time you will both move on and will be meeting new partners. For some older children, they are glad to see you happy and getting on with your life - they may feel t... (continued)

    6 Comments Read more →
  • Helping your child deal with loyalty issues

    21 Oct 16:59

    Loyalty issues for children after separation Loyalty conflicts for children arise when closeness to one parent means being disloyal to the other.  Children love both parents and... (continued)

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  • Is Shared Care for You?

    21 Oct 16:47

    Dads are more ‘hands on’ than ever before but the fact remains that in the UK, children are mostly cared for by mums. Most people’s work commitments are the big barrie... (continued)

    5 Comments Read more →

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