I have recently been back to court and got a contact order to see my 8yr old Son at a contact centre but this has not been going well at all.
The order states every other Saturday but she couldn't attend the first available date and has now cancelled another!
I just dont really know what to do, we are due back at court later this year for a review but I really want to sort this out as its doing my son no good to be messing with contact like this.
Do I just accept that contact will be like this until the review or do I actually try to communicate with her and find out whats going on?
She is openly hostile towards me and I am sure she is of the opinion I should never see my son again but wont say it publicly. Whenever we are having a serious discussion she will end it one way or another, all of my letters have gone unanswered and in fact the only time we have really ever talked about this issue is right after court! I dont really think she was listening as her behavior hasn't improved at all and she has made no attempt to contact me directly choosing instead to relay messages through the contact centre.
I really need to get control of this situation for the sake of my son, he is failing at school and has emotional problems which are being exacerbated by this situation, his doctors and school are doing all they can but they can only do so much while he lives with his mother.
Any advice will be very appreciated. Thanks.