Contact centre increase??
I have been seeing my children in a contact centre since march. Next week is my last session there then I go onto community contact for a few sessions before my children can start coming to my home. I have done 5 contact centre visits and on all occasions I have seen my 2 youngest. But my eldest has only seen me once for a few minutes but was fine gave me a cuddle etc but refused to come in the other times. I have tried communicating with my ex and said I will work with her on encouraging the eldest but my hands are tied as I can’t see the eldest unless she actually comes in to the room so my ex needs to work with her on this but I know she isn’t. Needless to say all my efforts to talk to my ex about this have been ignored. I send cards to my eldest because I don’t see her and she gets a gift like the other 2 if I take them one.
My fear now is my ex is going to go back to court to get contact centre visits increased until the oldest child starts coming in.
Does anyone know if this is something the court will do? I just feel this isn’t fair on my other 2 who always tell me they don’t get enough time at contact centre and want to come to my house.
Any info would be appreciated.