CONTACT ORDER HEARING WHEN DAD ABUSED ME/SON
i am panicking. I recently got an app for a contact order,for my sons dad to see my 3yr old son. when h hasnt seen him for over 4mnths. An d has recently bouht himself a two-seater sports car. A 3yr ol can`t go in.
I am so frustrated with the ridiculous sytem. I can`t understand why ex-partners are granted any contact atall, if they have abused the child`s parent/the child.
How can anyone see this as `best interest of your child`! When infact, its putting the child in danger. Making the hearing pointless, if court ignores potential harm to the child/actual harm.
from what ive read and heard. It takes a hell of alot, if anything. That makes cafcas stop a child`s 2nd parent from being stopped access.
What about hearing a child`s voice?.
What if they are distressed whn forced to see them, infront of everyone at the contact centre?. what happens then?. Is mum allowed to take them back home, where they want to be?
Social services advised me to stop access in the first place, for not just one or two reasons. But upto ten serious ones. harm to mum aswell as child.
I will not let my child be left alone with his abuse dad for even an hour. i will not give up