Daughter won't see me
Hi all. I have recently been granted a court order which I am very happy with and in the end entitles me to half of everything like school holidays,xmas,weekends etc. I hadn't seen my kids for a while so contact has started in a contact centre for just 5 sessions. I am 3 sessions in and my youngest two love it. They are all over me with cuddles and are happy playing and spending time with me. My eldest I have been told doesn't want to see me. She is 7!!!! A member of staff at the centre has said that she doesn't get upset isn't crying and isn't giving a reason not to come in. I gave them all a present on 2nd session. It got passed to my eldest who was in the waiting room and she came in to see me to say thank you and gave me a kiss and a cuddle but then left the room again. She wasn't upset when she saw me and was quite happy to give me a hug.
In court my barriester told me that if she doesn't want to see me its not an option really. Like kids don't want to go to school or dentist sometimes she has no choice it's for her benefit to have a relationship with her dad.
I know this is all because of my ex and her influence on her it's always been the same.
Ex is texting saying that I have to write to my eldest because she wants no contact direct or indirect with me! I find that hard to believe as I have always had a good relationship with all my children.
I want to tell ex that I feel it's down to her not encouraging and not wanting her to see me but it will end in arguments and I don't want that.
What can I do?????