Help - Co Parenting!
My sons father has recently taken me to court regarding access as he has not seen our son in over 1 year. we had an agreement in place where he collects our son from school once a week and everywhere Saturday however this lasted approximately 9 months soon after his mother passed away. I was compassionate as my sons grandmother and I were very close so I kept to the agreed contact dates however I transported our son to his father and family. This continued for 18 months until our sons 6th birthday then I spoke with his dad to say that he would now have to be responsible for transporting our son on agree dates as my work hours were now extended and our sons football activities were three times weekly. My sons father said that if I was not willing to transport our son then he would not be collecting him. We are back in court in 2 weeks for final hearing and I have since reached out via parenting plan, emails proposing access but he refuses to collect our son. I did reach out over the xmas and said I would compromise and drop our son over as we are sorting access but he said that he would have a family member drop him home ( perfectly fine). I have reached out again today and said our son is missing him if he would like to spend sometime but insisted that I must drop him as he does not think that he should have to collect our son as it's not a good idea and his family members are busy.