My ex now gets to see our daughters every other weekend, they go over to his. Since the court hearing, he went on Facebook and wrote horrible things about me. I brought it to his solicitor's attention. He also stopped paying for child maintenance. I got a call from my older daughter(6) to come get her because she had been sick after her dad dropped her off. My younger daughter(22 months) also looked extremely exhausted. I was told they had a fun and active weekend. My ex won't take my daughter for her swimming lessons on weekends she with him. I've offered to take her swimming and drop her off with the minder for him to collect both girls but he refuses and says he he would only get her from school. I have given him more than 48 hrs prior notice. Will I be wrong to take my daughter swimming regardless of the court order?she's already missed 1 lesson while at his, he didn't go her school when it was his turn and I had to. Should I have not allowed him to see or have contact with the kids?i thought of putting my feelings aside because it was an emotionally abusive marriage. I know my older daughter wants to spend time with her dad and I didn't object to that, I even said they would spend some days with him while on holiday, was I wrong for doing this?