How do I get started?
We have been married for 8 years and have 2 children, aged 4 and 2 years. We have always had a stormy relationship here I have been the noisy angry one and my husband has just walked away and left me to get over it. Since our daughter was born two years ago the situation has got worse...we disagree about everything and I wonder why we ever got married...'though we both really love our children. I have changed, I can't be bothered arguing with him anymore....he now goes out a lot more with his workmates and I am not bothered...I have good friends and family who visit and help with childcare if I go out with my friends. I now want to separate from my husband and live on my own with the children. I have no problem with sharing time with the children with him...although he rarely volunteers to do anything with them now. Can anyone help me to get started...my husband knows nothing about this yet and I want to know how to go about this in the best way before I tell him.