just dont know how much more i can take !
i have been seperated for almost a year now and finacial arrangements have still not been settled. CSA got involved last september and since then they have had no joy obtaining any money from my ex who has recently jacked his job in as he ows so much in back pay !!!. I have had summer clothes to buy shoes etc for two children age 6 and 1.5 and have asked for his help and he refuses ! yet he can take them off and drive nice cars and turn up in new clothes ?? i cant cope finanially and its getting silly. I have never stopped contact and have tried to be the amicable one. He has his own house now sees the kids every tuesday and every other weekend . He has no cooker though and his next door female neighbour has i big involvment in looking after my children and i dont know her !!! he has also after i suggested meeting her suggested i meet his new girl too !!! i feel soi frustrated and angry how can they get away with behaving like this !. I am in the process of applying for divorce although i recently started a new relationshio and 2 months in my new boyfriend was killed in a bike accident. My new boyfriend had met the children as my ex was being so akward over contact and threatening to my new boyfriend at the time 'threatened to break his legs ' !! this is just a small bit of info on what he can be like !! i have had 12 months of hell i wish i didnt have to deal with him, i dont know what to do :(