paternity & sources of help
My problem is that I am uncertain about the paternity child (not a toddler). I love and want them all so CSA issues are irrelevant.
However it is crushing me so much that I am stuck (despite seeing a counsellor). I havn't attempted dna tests as even this has many consequences, for the children not least. Also: do I want to know if i love them. Perhaps this is foolish.
Relationship is on the ropes, but wouldn't want it if not real, and not good anyway (got worse with this obviously but before too). I am in despair as it is almost destroying me.
Too many issues perhaps on top of all the standard seperation issues for a simple answer. But any suggestions please do - including any sources of help I can go to.