stay or leave ?
My partner and I have not been getting on for ages and we decided earler in the year to stay in the same house and live separate lives . I think it is working for him but it is driving me mad as I just cannot stand having him around and seem to snap at him and our two kids because I am so irritated all the time .I am dreading the holiday period together and suggested in the New Year we should live apart. He went mad and tells me I am a cruel mum and selfish for putting myself before the kids . In his words if I am not happy then why should the kids end up as delinquents from a single parent family !!! . my youngest is 10 and I am not sure I can cope with this for another 8 years but I love my kids and don't want to screw them up . Any advice ?