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I am freaking out - should I be?

Posted by: Anonymous
Sat 1, Apr 2017 at 3:36am
After Separation

I have been divorced for 6-7 months. My son just told me the ex's bf of 2.5 months is sleeping in the same bed as him and his mom.

I am freaking out, how do I bring this up to her - this is certainly not ok with me!

Help pls!!!!

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  • Pc jaybee (moderator) Flag

    I understand your worry. I guess the first thing to do is to check out with your ex what the background might be to what your son has said, in a non- confrontational way.
    Something like, 'Can I just check with you, have I got this right...........?'. Try and accurately repeat what your son said so that you don't put any of your own 'spin' on it and try and do this face to face - texts and emails can lead to a lot of mis-understanding!

    Tue 4, Apr 2017 at 6:26am